Pathways to Radiant Loving is all about couples.

Your relationship doesn’t have to stay stuck in the same painful patterns. Change is possible—and it can happen faster than you think.

Pathways to Radiant Loving is devoted entirely to couples who want more than just getting by. If you and your partner feel caught in cycles of miscommunication, distance, or recurring conflict, this work helps you break free and find your way back to connection.

We bring fresh perspective and powerful, practical tools that go beyond surface-level fixes. Together, we uncover what’s really happening beneath the tension, so you can move out of reactivity and into understanding, respect, and genuine partnership.

This isn’t about who’s right or wrong—it’s about creating a relationship where both of you feel seen, heard, and valued. A relationship where honesty feels safe, connection feels natural, and enjoyment returns.

Whether you’re married or partnered, struggling or simply wanting to deepen what’s already good, we’re here to help you unlock the full, loving potential of your relationship.

Four simple and profound principles underlie our unique approach. They are .... 

1. Deepening Connection 2. Expressing Appreciation 3. Taking 100% Responsibility (for our own experience) and 4. Accepting The Other (as they are).   Read more about our four principles

About Louis and Trinity

Hello, We are Louis Carosio and Trinity Harris and we are co-founders of The Radiant Life Center and Pathways to Radiant Loving.  For the past 50 + years we have been seekers, personally, professionally and spiritually.  Utilizing the depth of our experience and training, we have incorporated approaches that address your concerns directly and in depth through presence, compassion and powerful change technologies. 

Together, we have also developed a unique approach to working with couples. Married in 1986, we have raised two spirited children and have allowed our life and relationship to be both our teaching and our practice. In 2006 we offered our first couple's retreat in the Northwest, near Eugene and after 20 years offered our last retreat in March of 2026. Please visit our Services for Couples page to find out more about couples work.

Whether in counseling sessions, workshops or retreats we share the learning, practices and tools that have truly impacted our own lives. We know the benefits!

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